2022.01.19 14:13 oof69420throwaway My gf doesn't want my mom at the hospital when she gives birth or for her to have any contact with our child
My mom and my gf have a rough relationship. I also used to have problems with my mom but we have since worked them out.
Now that I am having a kid my mom has been trying to be better and has apologized for her past mistakes and has been proving she can do better.
The problem is my gf absolutely wants me to have no contact with my mom and doesn't want me to be close with her. She also doesn't want my son to be anywhere near my mom or have any contact with my family.
This is because my mom found out that my current gf had been emailing my ex mean and hateful emails because she has jealousy issues. Even though I had been broke up with her for years now and have never once talked to her since. My mom found out because my ex called her to explain the situation, (I guess because she didn't want to talk to me) and told me about it.
The problem was I had asked my gf if she had been texting my ex and she vehemently denied it. Even though my exes email was recently searched in my Gmail box because my gf had gone through my phone. When I confronted her about it she kept denying it and got very mad at me and started fighting with me saying that I must still care about my ex, since I kept bringing this up. So eventually I told her I believed her and that was that.
So when my mom told me that she indeed was emailing my ex, I called my gf out on her lying to me about it and she got super upset and apologized and said she'd never do it again. But afterwards she was very upset at my mom because at the time my mom had been telling me she didn't think it was okay for her to be lying to me, and the whole situation had a negative impact on my moms view of my gf. My mom thought I should break up with my gf because of this and some other issues but I decided to stay with her.
I haven't seen my mom in months or even talked to her in close to a 7 months, since my gf wants me to keep my distance from her.
But I want to at least have a decent relationship with my mom because she's not a horrible person. And I want her to be able to see her grandson.
This is her second grandchild as my sister had my nephew over a year ago, but my sister gave up custody of my nephew to her baby daddy and he lives in out of state so we have no contact with him.
I know my mom has always wanted grandkids and I want her to be able to have that with my son. My gf on the other hand doesn't want my mom to have any contact him. And if I ever try to bring the issue up my gf gets super upset and says that she thought we had already settled this issue. (We haven't I just haven't been bring it up because I wanted to give my gf time to calm down.)
So fastforward to today when my gf is going to be induced into labor and my mom wants to come to the hospital to support us. My gf is adamant that she doesn't want my mom here and of course I don't want to make things stressful for her when she's pregnant. I want to talk to her about it and see if I can convince her to let my mom come and at least see her grandson for a little bit. My gfs whole family is going to be coming but she doesn't want any of my family there. I at least want my mom there.
How should I approach this situation with my gf? I don't want to make her upset but I also don't think it's fair that I can't have any of my family there.
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2022.01.19 14:13 Rix27_ Gaspard Ulliel, French Actor and ‘Moon Knight’ Star, Dies at 37 After Ski Accident
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2022.01.19 14:13 PierluigiPeppino Crypto Exchange Shuts Down Withdrawals After Hackers Reportedly Steal $33 Million in Ethereum
2022.01.19 14:13 Iwillstealyourcheese Some scripts I found which you can use to figure out the lore
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2022.01.19 14:13 pissdrinkerman What is it
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2022.01.19 14:13 MugShots LVMPD Traffic Alert
2022.01.19 14:13 fifaplayer0519 you are no longer synced to the online match
has anyone else come across this? im on ps5 and have a wired connection. could it be corrupted files? Ive tried everything. plz help a brother out.
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2022.01.19 14:13 codingprolab CSE 1320: Assignment 9 solved
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2022.01.19 14:13 80s90sGeek Dead Celebrity Trivia: January 19th, 2022
What's up, Reddit? It's your boy 80s90sGeek again, coming at you live and in person for another episode of Dead Celebrity Trivia! I hope you've all got your thinking caps on!
For those who are new to the game, or for those who want to review the rules, you can find them here.
Up and at 'em!
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2022.01.19 14:13 kaitonakedscarfpose Cottagecore
2022.01.19 14:13 Jtmarx I really want to see Luffy and Sabo beat Akainu
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2022.01.19 14:13 Rudrose Robel Akbel Deck Tech!
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2022.01.19 14:13 AutoNewspaperAdmin [Business] - Judge tosses Universal exec Charlie Walk’s lawsuit against ex-lawyer | NY Post
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2022.01.19 14:13 AutMoberator r/eyebleech omg 69 with a death
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2022.01.19 14:13 BusterFoyt Any of you hippies remember these guys?
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2022.01.19 14:13 patientish (CW Living children) What do I call him?
Bartholomew was my 3rd son. And something I didn't anticipate was how losing him would affect how I talk about my other kids. Child #1 is 7, he's the oldest, easy peasy. But I have a 4yo also, who was the youngest, then wasn't, and now again, my youngest living child. But...he's not my youngest, and I feel like referring to him as such is just ignoring my actual youngest, who isn't here but is still very much a part of my life. No point, it just really sucks.
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2022.01.19 14:13 Laeriekoek I keep reliving the hospital in my head
3,5 weeks post-op. I have a big fear of needles and incisions, so the surgery was very scary for me. Inserting the needle for the IV it was a disaster, it failed twice because I was so tense (but also too afraid to ask for a calming med) and in the end they were going to insert it when I was already asleep from gas. I was crying from fear while they brought me into the operation room and brought me to sleep. But they were nice the whole time.
Then I woke up with that IV and the drains inside me. Everything went well and the staff was super nice. I had to stay the night, and at one point they had to flush the infusion, which hurt a lot, but also I could often feel the fluids going in and was terrified of that feeling. I barely slept.
In the morning they luckily took out the needle, and the drains, which was one of the weirdest feelings I've ever had and I hated that as well. Very glad that I was free of tubes and needles though.
Now a few weeks have passed and it feels like a trauma. I already told the whole story to my therapist and she was very compassionate. I can't stop thinking about it though, last night I had a panic attack about it. I don't know how to stop thinking about that feeling of needles and tubes and fluids. I'm crying as I'm typing this. Does anyone relate to this at all?
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2022.01.19 14:13 MsMarketResearch Paid study for business owners in Miami!
2022.01.19 14:13 Greenmist01 May the force be with you............could what Del Boy did actually work?
One of my favourite OFAH episodes ever is May the Force Be With You. I think this is the first episode where Slater tries to take on Del Boy, but comes off second best.
Ive been asking myself "could what Del Boy did actually work in real life?". With the final encounter of Slater vs Del Boy, that one is more easier to analyze. Del Boy basically created an ace in the hole through sheer blagging, something that would have Slater over a barrel if Del Boy had the means all along to produce it (a fax machine in his flat where the photo copying mechanism actually worked). But of course, there was no way Slater would have called Del Boy's bluff on it.
In the episode May the Force Be With You, i think it worked for Del Boy because he suckered Slater into a trap, by using Slaters characteristic flaws against him. If you have commited a crime, strictly speaking you cannot earn yourself a get out of jail free card on the crime. If you committed a crime, you have to be punished for it (Del Boy confessed that it was him who stole the microwave oven). I think the explanation is, Del Boy had an ace in the hole in this episode too, because he got Slater to do something that is illegal for a police officer or a detective to do, and that is grant immunity to a crime(s) in exchange for co-operation. Like i said, Del Boy used Slaters characteristic flaws against him. Slater is a very underhanded practising officer, blinded by total ambition who would lie cheat and steal to get a prosecuting result. In that same episode Slater even admitted to Del Boy that he turned over his own father, just to curry favour from the precinct.
Slater wanted maximum result from the police interrogation with DelBoy, but Slater realised that for Del Boy to commit career suicide (by becoming a known snitcher), is not something he would do easily. So Slater had to agree to Del Boys terms, where in that term was a signed agreement that no member of the Trotter family would be persecuted in the process. By Del Boy getting Slater to sign an agreement in exchanged for immunity for himself, Rodney and Grandad, that was Slaters fatal move. Del Boy with a sign agreement in his hands meant thats how he got Slater over a barrel..............this is proof you commited an illegal act as an officer of the law.
This is my take on it anyway..............dont know if its the right one?.
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2022.01.19 14:13 Cloesch85 Soon I will have the one year anniversary on reddit. I learned about it from the medines and remember the early days…
we were less than 20k members! last year i was sometimes euphoric, sometimes maybe too much. but i always bought something when there was a opportunity. never much but something. now i hold about 800 physical ounces, those with a nice entry price and one once ist still one once. what i want to say: now we are soon 178k members and still a good and friendly conversation, never bad words or something! guys, be patient, let's continue to pursue our goal and the "silver squeeze" will follow. Thank you all apes 🦍🦍🦍
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2022.01.19 14:13 euaeuo Compact Camera for Outdoor Photography / Video?
I'm looking for recommendations of what camera to get for outdoors photography during hiking as well as travels. I've previously used the RX100IV from Sony and really enjoyed it, but I haven't used a compact camera in so long that I'm not sure what else is out there now. I'm not looking to spend a ton, maybe around $1000.
I'm currently using a Panasonic G9 which I love, but is heavy and bulky and even with a fairly multi-purpose lens weighs nearly 2lbs. I have a lot of experience with DSLR's, Panasonic, and Sony mirrorless cameras.
I know there are a bunch of new mirrorless and compact camera options, so would I be better served by spending a little more or dealing with a bit more weight and bulk to get a proper APSC sensor and manual controls?
My ideal uses are hiking, outdoor photography, travel, and candid. So, mostly in good light but decent low-light would be a plus. I also like to just carry a compact camera every day and find taking candids with it of friends or street photography a really nice way to get some nice images inconspicuously, especially during travel when a big DLSR would draw attention to yourself.
2022.01.19 14:13 watran Mithe doufám že zas začneš hrát minecraft
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2022.01.19 14:13 codingprolab CSE 1320: Assignment 8 solved
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2022.01.19 14:13 bot_painani SEMMEXICO: Plantean diputados del PAN derogar delito de Ultrajes a la Autoridad en Veracruz
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